Tita Helen and Tito Romy

The first and third readings in the Mass last Sunday spoke about hospitality. In the former, we read how Abraham welcomed the Lord, in the three men standing near him "during the hottest part of the day" (Genesis 19:1-10a). In the latter, we come across Martha and Mary welcoming Jesus in their home (Luke 10:38-42).

For the Jews, it is a sacred duty to welcome guests or strangers into their homes. This trait is similar to how we Filipinos treat people coming into our homes. Hospitality is borne out of love and concern for the person/s we encounter.

Many summers ago, during our heydays in Anluwage, we would often been welcomed to homes of our members. Meeting members' families gives us an opportunity to touch base with their parents, siblings, and other relatives. 

One family that we have touched base with are the Bautista Family whose house was located near Benita Street on the northern part of Gagalangin. We frequented their home and were treated well by Tito Romy and Tita Helen, Owen Bautista-Alcaraz's parents. Owen was Editor-in-Chief of Anluwage, Gagalangin Parish's newsletter during those times. She also performed as the Virgin Mary in the group's Pitong Hapis, Pitong Tuwa.

Tito Romy and Tita Helen were wonderful hosts who prepared food and engaged well with their guests. They would ask us how we were doing, what our interests were, etc. We had happy memories in their home. 

A week ago, Tita Helen passed away after being hospitalised. In a matter of days, Tito Romy followed his wife in the after-life.

I was telling Owen that this is the mystery of life, love, and marriage. In marriage, Tita Helen and Tito Romy (as well as all couples) pledged to be with each other "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, till death to us part." Perhaps, their mission of watching over their children and grandchildren, as well as others who look up to them, has not ended, but has gone to a higher level - united with the Guest who was welcomed by Abraham, Martha, and Mary.

Tita Helen and Tito Romy, many thanks for the happy times we have spent in your home. Thank you for warmly welcoming us whenever we visit you, sometimes at last minute's notice. May Jesus, the Divine Guest, welcome you in the Father's house where there are many rooms (John 14:2).

Owen and family, our hearts go out to you at these difficult times. Stay strong and faithful. Sending you all out tight and warm hugs.