I woke up last Sunday without my voice. I don't why or how it happened. I struggled to talk. I couldn't sing during the Mass. During our night prayers, it was only Chiara singing the Salve Regina. When I went to work the following day, our team leader wondered why I was silent. Someone called and I have to pick up the phone. Luckily, the conversation wasn't that complicated. I didn't go to work for three days.
I slowly gained my voice as the days go although it's still husky (and couldn't sing!) as I write this. In a way, I accepted my 'silence' as a Lenten penance. As a member of the Apostleship of Prayer, I offered it for the Sacred Heart of Jesus' intentions and those of the Holy Father. On the bright side, silence meant that I could focus on what I am doing be it at home or at work. It also meant to listen attentively to the one you communicate with, otherwise you'll end up asking (read: talking) for more. Silence also provided a way for me to be careful with the words I say, to speak with tact.
But there is more than these to silence. Hidalgo Del Arrabal, one of our contributors in the web, wrote this last year:
Tanging sa katahimikan
Diyos nakikipagtalastasan;
Tanging sa mapagkumbaba
Poon nagbibigay-biyaya.
Purihin ka, O San Jose
Pinakinggan mo ang mensahe
Mag-inang sa Ama nagbuhat
Pinangalagaan mong tapat!
(Only through silence
Does God communicate;
Only to the humble
Does He give grace.
Praise you, O Saint Joseph
You listened to the message
Mary and her Child who came from the Father
You faithfully looked after!)
It's nearly the feast of St Joseph. This humble carpenter from Nazareth was known as a silent worker, someone who would prefer to work in the background. Both the poor in the Philippines and the religious worldwide (2015 is a special year for both groups of people) can draw inspiration from St Joseph.
For the poor whose abject condition has silenced them to the whims of the powers-that-be, this great saint comes as an example of complete trust in the Lord and working diligently. St Joseph lived in poverty too, but didn't buy into any shortcuts or 'instants' (instant rich, instant ginhawa, etc.).
For the religious, St Joseph is a very good example of following the evangelical counsels - poverty, chastity, and obedience. Through their faithful witness to these three vows, they offer the world something different, something of more value, something that isn't just a fad, but has lasting character.
May St Joseph's silence inspire us in our Lenten journey to become more attentive to that message which God is conveying us. May his silence transform us into faithful stewards looking after those who were entrusted to us - family, community, environment, the poor and needy.
Mabuhay si San Jose!
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It's Mother's Day (or Mothering Sunday) here in the UK tomorrow. My fervent prayers and best wishes to all moms, especially to my wife and to my mother, on their special day. May St Joseph watch over you. May his silence encourage you to keep up the good work and become more open to God's grace. Happy Mother's Day!



